Feel like yourself again
By feeling yourself again
Somatic sexology & intimacy coaching (plus a little witchcraft for good measure)
for people who are ready to live their lushest life.
“Sarai sets up an experience that reminds you that you are the star of your own story, and helps you find your confidence and trust in your intuition in the journey you are on.”
Great Sex Isn’t About Performance
It’s about allowing
It’s about being so in tune with your own power and your own body that you open up to the experience of being human and divine at once.
Truly, the most beautiful sexual experiences feel like transcendence and grounding at the same time. This can be life changing - I know, because my life - my entire being - has been transformed through this process. It has changed the way I feel inside my body, it has changed the way I relate to people I love and people I don’t even know, it has given me myself back after a lifetime of chipping off parts of myself and giving them away to anybody who asked (and to some people who didn’t ask).
Where most sex therapy and coaching starts is with techniques and education - and yes, we do explore these things - but with me as your guide, the work starts within your own body, mind, and spirit. Technique is great - learning how to move your body and your hips and loosen your pelvic floor and enjoying sensation - yes! And yet, it’s not everything. It’s not even the starting line.
I believe that showing up fully as your sovereign, powerful self - and meeting another sovereign powerful person - is the key to a wildly fulfilling sex life. Hell, you can have a great sex life with just yourself if you want - it’s up to you.
To surrender to a gorgeous, embodied experience, we need to get to know ourselves - develop trust in ourselves and our own bodies, develop intimacy with ourselves first - and learn how to keep our own shape when we engage with romantic and sexual partners. That’s why we start with tending to your body - physically, energetically, emotionally, and spiritually - giving you the space to connect with and romance your own self. And this process gives you insight into your own patterns, your embodied experience, the places you need healing, and the opportunities your body holds for more pleasure, more aliveness, more lushness. From this place of strength and sovereignty, you connect with someone else and honor their sovereignty as well.
To me, sexuality is one magical way to connect with your truest, most aligned self so you can show up and live the life you want to live while you’re here on this planet, in this body, right now. Your body deserves your care and attention - and will reward you with its radical capacity for pleasure.
ready to get started? book a free call with me and we’ll discover your path to pleasure
Tell me, how long have you been getting ready to live?
You’ve done the therapy, the journaling, the breathwork. Something still feels locked or stuck or clenched.
You left the religion, or the relationship, or the version of yourself that was built for someone else’s comfort. But your body hasn’t entirely caught up to you yet.
You know what you want. You just don’t feel like you’re allowed to have it.
Or, you don’t even know what you want anymore, but you know it’s somewhere inside you — if you could only find the map back to yourself.
You’re crushing it at work or as a parent or a friend and privately running on fumes.
You keep ending up in the same dynamic with different people and you’re tired of analyzing why without anything actually shifting.
You’ve never quite felt at home in your own body. You’re starting to wonder if that’s actually something that can change. (Good news: It is!)
You like sex alright, but you know it could be better - or you don’t even know you’re allowed to want that or to give attention to that part of your life. (you’re allowed! It’s good to feel good)
Here’s what I know about the people who find their way here:
You haven’t been failing at your life. You’ve been waiting for the right conditions to start truly living it.
Waiting until the kids are older, the job is less overloaded, the to-do list is shorter, the shame is quieter. Waiting until you’ve suffered enough and worked hard enough to earn the right to want what you want.
Your body has been here the whole time — asking, in its soft animal way, for your attention, waiting for you to take a breath and turn within. The time has come to allow yourself to lean into your life in this body of yours more fully.
Because here’s what fifteen years of working with the body and a lifetime of gardening taught me: you don’t wait for perfect conditions to start or tend a garden. You work with the season you’re actually in.
Your body is the same as the garden. It has been here with you through every season, every drought, every frost, every deluge — asking quietly to be tended. Not fixed, or optimized, or nipped, or tucked, or managed. Tended.
The soil is ready. The garden is yours. And you already have everything you need to begin.
The time to live your lush life in the body you have today is right now.
Schedule a call with me to discover how you can welcome more pleasure, joy, and connection.
I’m Sarai Johnson — Somatic Sexologist, Reiki Master, ordained minister, recovering good girl, and practicing witch. I help adults of all genders to build intimacy with themselves so they can enjoy more intimacy with others. I deeply believe that pleasure is power, and that tapping into the body’s immense capacity for enjoyment unlocks a more beautiful life - and world.
I hold a Bachelor of Ministry, a Master of Public Administration, and Sexology, Relationship, and Consensual Nonmonogamy Coaching certification through Sexual Health Alliance.
Which is a long way of saying I’ve spent a lot of time studying what humans do with their bodies and their systems and their beliefs — and even longer finding my way back to my own body after high control religion. I, myself, have moved from burned out to turned on, and I know you can too.
What I believe is this: your body is for you. Not for your productivity, your family’s or your boss’s comfort, or whichever institution decided your desires were not allowed. Your body is yours. And it is meant to be enjoyed, not just endured.
I also co-host Cauldron Her Daddy with astrologer Meredith Holley. If you want to hear more of our spiritual opinions and occasional Ethical Sh*t Talk about reality TV and controversy. Mostly we talk about magick, sex, and astrology - and it is fun!
Propagate
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Cultivate
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Pollinate
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Propagate ✳︎ Cultivate ✳︎ Pollinate ✳︎
My Methodology
The Lush Life process moves through three phases:
Propagate — getting to know your sovereign self and building self-trust
Cultivate — learning to actually inhabit and tend to your body and building self-intimacy
Pollinate — bringing that sovereign self into relationship with other people without losing yourself and building true and lasting intimacy with others
My work draws from somatic sexology, Reiki, yoga, polyvagal nerve theory, and lineage from Celtic and Norse pagan witch tradition.
It is as rigorous as it is wyrd (and it works). If you want to work where science and magick meet, get in here, babe.
Not sure where to start? No worries. That’s what the quiz is for.
The Desire Map Quiz maps your inner terrain so you can see clearly which part of your energetic landscape has gone dry, which is quietly ready to move, and what your body is actually asking for right now.
Seven energy centers mapped and assessed. Zero generic advice. Five minutes of your time.
Free · instant results · no email required to start (but if you want to keep in touch, let’s!)
“ Sarai is a gifted healer. In addition to having uncanny intuition, she is well-versed in multiple modes of spiritual and somatic healing practices. After the session, I used the tools she gave me to get back into the body.
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The Path We’ll Walk Together
There’s no single way in. There’s just your way.
Join me for my signature 90-minute somatic energy session integrating tarot, Reiki, Pathworking, body-based practice, and the Lush Life methodology. For when you’re ready to stop analyzing your patterns and start moving through them. This is the launchpad for ongoing coaching as well.
Tending the Bones & Blooms
“Having a Tending the Bones & Blooms session with Sarai was truly incredible. I didn’t realize how easily I could start to have less shame about some vulnerable memories. She made me feel held and safe and seen in some of my worst moments.
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Sex & Intimacy Coaching
Work with me for a few months (or more, depending on what you need) to work through the propagate, cultivate, pollinate cycle and improve your experiences in your own body and relationships. Coaching is available for individuals as well as partners, up to four participants in a session. To learn more about coaching options, book a Discovery Call and we will chat about what you’re looking to do.
“I could feel the shame about sexuality melting away”
Energy Work
Join me for 60-minutes of Reiki and Pathworking. All sessions are held remotely, on a video call with me from the comfort of wherever you are. What you bring: your self, your body, and your comfiest clothes.
“I tend to be emotionally “armored” and Sarai creates an absolutely disarming, warm and inviting atmosphere. I felt my shields melt away, dropped into vulnerability and absorbing her guidance. ”
Tarot Reading
Ask your questions and I’ll bring you an interpretation using Tarot to reflect what you want to know.
“Sarai’s energy and storytelling around the cards she pulls for you are very insightful and delightful. ”
Here’s the thing about tending your body like a garden:
You don’t even have to know what’s growing yet. You just have to show up to the garden and behold what is wanting to bloom.